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Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow? Rethinking Body Hair Removal

Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow? Rethinking Body Hair Removal: There’s a certain liberation that comes with being a midlife woman. Suddenly, the little things that used to bother me – greasy hair, a couple of stray hairs on my legs and armpits – just don’t hold the same power anymore. It’s about embracing who you are, and that includes your body hair.

This newfound freedom sparked a conversation with a friend: what message are we sending to our daughters about hair removal? Are we subtly pressuring our daughters to conform to a narrow definition of beauty, one that prioritises hair removal above all else? Personally, I’m not a huge fan of hair removal anymore. These days, it’s more of a summertime thing for me, and even then, it’s a personal choice, not an obligation.

Why the Shave? A Legacy of Aesthetics, Hygiene, and Social Status

I am asking my midlife self, “Why do we even remove body hair?” It’s a question that delves deeper than personal preference. The practice of hair removal has roots stretching back millennia, and the motivations behind it have evolved over time. While hygiene may have played a role in some cultures, societal expectations and ever-shifting beauty standards have been a major driving force.

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Beyond Smooth: A Look at Hair Removal History

In ancient Egypt, for example, both men and women removed body hair, possibly for reasons of hygiene and social status. Less body hair was associated with higher social standing. Fast forward to Roman times, and similar beliefs held sway. Smooth skin was a sign of wealth and refinement, while body hair was seen as barbaric

Fast forward to the 20th century, and the invention of the safety razor for men opened a door for the burgeoning beauty industry. Manufacturers saw an opportunity in women’s legs, and with the rise of shorter hemlines in the 1920s, smooth, hairless legs became synonymous with femininity and cleanliness. Advertising campaigns fueled by this ideology bombarded women, effectively creating a “need” for a product they might not have considered before. Remember all those sleek-legged women lounging on beaches in vintage magazines? That’s the power of advertising at play. This article is a brilliant read. how the beauty industry convinced women to shave their leg

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Hair removal: To Do or Not To Do?

There’s no right or wrong answer. Hair removal is a personal choice. Here are some tips to consider, whether you choose to embrace your natural beauty or enjoy the feeling of smooth skin:

Do:

  • Choose Your Method: Shaving, waxing, sugaring – there are so many options! Consider your skin type, desired level of smoothness, and hair growth patterns.
  • Prep Your Skin: Exfoliate to prevent ingrown hairs.
  • Moisturise: Hydrated skin is less prone to irritation.

Don’t:

  • Rush the Process: Take your time to avoid nicks and cuts. Shaving against the grain might offer a closer shave initially, but it can lead to irritation and ingrown hairs.
  • Forget Sunscreen: Apply sunscreen with SPF 30 or higher after shaving, especially on exposed areas.

Beyond Aesthetics: The Science of Body Hair Unveiled

Body hair might seem purely cosmetic, but science reveals it actually serves several biological functions. Eyelashes and eyebrows actively shield our eyes from dust and debris. Underarm hair acts as a buffer, reducing friction and irritation. Body hair on our arms and legs might even play a role in thermo-regulation, helping us stay insulated in cold weather and cool down when it’s hot.

Interestingly, research suggests that body hair might also be involved in pheromone production. Pheromones are scent molecules that can influence human behaviour. While science is still emerging, it’s fascinating to consider that our body hair might be more than just a cosmetic concern!

The Body Positive Movement Embraces You, Natural Beauty and All

The message of embracing body hair perfectly aligns with the growing body positive movement. This movement actively encourages self-acceptance and challenges unrealistic beauty standards. For many women, constantly removing body hair can feel like a constant battle against their natural bodies. By embracing our body hair, we can reclaim a sense of control and celebrate the unique beauty we possess.

If you’re interested in learning more about body positivity, there are fantastic resources readily available online and in libraries. You can also follow body positive influencers on social media who actively promote self-love and acceptance. Or you could take part in the next Januhairy

Eco-Friendly Shaving: Making Sustainable Choices for You and the Planet

While this blog post encourages embracing body hair, some women may still prefer to shave. If that’s you, there are ways to make shaving a more eco-friendly practice. Disposable razors contribute significantly to landfill waste. Consider switching to a safety razor with replaceable blades, which can last for years. You can also explore sustainable shaving products, like razors made from recycled materials or shaving creams packaged in recyclable containers.

Every little bit counts! By actively making conscious choices about shaving products, we can minimise our environmental impact while taking care of our bodies.

Embrace Your Body, Hair and All

Ultimately, the choice is yours. Whether you choose to shave or not, here’s the most important tip: embrace your body hair. It may be a cultural legacy, but our bodies are beautiful just as they are. Let’s redefine beauty standards and celebrate the diversity of women’s bodies.

I am a midlife woman, embarking on a journey of self-discovery, embracing change, and redefining who I am without the constant hum of children filling my life. My first born daughter turned 18 and is starting out in her own life. My son is 13 years old and is becoming more independent and is developing his own interests.

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